Helping Adolescents with Anger and Life (Guest: Dr. John Schinnerer)

JSchinnererphotoThe emotion of anger can be compared to a stick of dynamite. Used well, and with respect for its potential, dynamite contains the energy and force to build bridges, roads and dams. Used carelessly, however, it can be incredibly destructive and costly in so many ways. It’s much the same with anger.

According to our guest on this program, Dr. John Schinnerer, issues of destructive anger in our young people, especially teens, are on the rise. He will help us sort through the nature of anger and other negative emotions in this population. And, of course, Dr. Schinnerer will offer insights and suggestions for helping these youngsters manage their anger with a perspective and manner that are more healthy and constructive. This is not only important, our future depends on it.

GuideToSelfBookDr. Schinnerer has developed a unique coaching methodology that combines the best aspects of entertainment, humor, positive psychology and emotional management techniques. He teaches clients evidence-based ways to turn down the volume on negative emotions such as anger, anxiety and stress. In short, he is revolutionizing the way in which people make sense of the mind, behavior and emotion. He is also the author of thee award-winning book, Guide to Self: The Beginner’s Guide to Managing Emotion and Thought.  (28:13)

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COMING SOON: Kids and Summer Camp: Coping with Homesickness (Guest: Frank Sileo)

“My Brother is Different:” The Sibling Side of Autism (Guest: Barbara Morvay)

THIS IS A REPOST OF AN EXCELLENT INTERVIEW WITH BARBARA THAT AIRED AUGUST 12, 2012.

 

Although we’re better at questions than answers, much has been observed, researched and written about autism. We know it is the fastest growing developmental disability in the United States, and we know that raising and teaching an autistic child present patience and skills-stretching challenges daily.

But what about the siblings of an autistic child? What do we know of their concerns, fears and feelings regarding their autistic brother or sister? Additionally, what specific things can we do with the “normal” siblings to help them adapt, adjust and become as resilient and emotionally fit as possible?

Parents have been asking these questions for some time, but there haven’t been many answers. Until now.

Our guest on this program, Barbara Morvay, has written a ground-breaking book that squarely addresses the siblings of an autistic child, My Brother is Different: A Sibling’s Guide to Coping with Autism. In the book (enthusiastically endorsed by autism advocate, Temple Grandin) and in this interview, Barbara addresses the thoughts “normal” children are afraid to think and the questions they are afraid to ask. Barbara does this by empowering the best counselors a youngster will ever have: Mom and Dad.

Barbara is a retired educator of 37 years. As a Special Education teacher and later principal and superintendent of schools specializing in the education of special needs students, Barbara knows first-hand the challenges involved, but also the victories.

As testimony to her expertise, Barbara was appointed to The Richard Stockton School of New Jersey Board of Trustees, and she was appointed by Governor Chris Christie to the New Jersey Governor’s Council for Medical Research and Treatment of Autism. (27:21)

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Raising Happy, Confident Kids, Part Two (Guest: Jonathan Hewitt)

JonathanHewittphotoParents want their children to be happy, of course. But descriptions of “happy” can vary widely. Folks like author Dennis Prager (Happiness is a Serious Problem) have been telling us for years how there can be serious issues with how we chase after happiness, and how we try to capture it for our children.

Jonathan Hewitt, our guest on this program, takes another giant step in exposing something that is hurting our kids; he calls it the American Happiness Formula. Here it is: Look Good + Perform Well + Get Approval = Happiness. As a result of dependence on “outside” measures of accomplishment and success, our children are showing more stress, anxiety and depression than ever before. In a refeshingly candid fashion, Jonathan shares from personal experience the harm the American Happiness Formula can create in young people and their families.

Hewitt_cover_withEndorsement.inddFortunately, there is hope, and Jonathan offers plenty of it. His training, extensive research and experience in psychology, martial arts and life education have led to some welcomed answers. In this in-depth, two-part interview, Jonathan outlines a formula for happiness that emphasizes increased focus, confidence, resilience and social intelligence.

Jonathan and his wife, Lana, teach their “growth from within” principles to young people at their Life Ki-do Academy in Austin, Texas. Their success over the years has been remarkable. The Hewitts have now shared with parents what they’ve learned and what they teach. It’s in their new book, Life Ki-do Parenting: Tools to Raise Happy, Confident Kids from the Inside Out. (22:07)

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COMING SOON: “My Brohter is Different:” The Sibling Side of Autism (Guest: Barbara Morvay)

Raising Happy, Confident Kids, Part One (Guest: Jonathan Hewitt)

JonathanHewittphotoParents want their children to be happy, of course. But descriptions of “happy” can vary widely. Folks like author Dennis Prager (Happiness is a Serious Problem) have been telling us for years how there can be serious issues with how we chase after happiness, and how we try to capture it for our children.

Jonathan Hewitt, our guest on this program, takes another giant step in exposing something that is hurting our kids; he calls it the American Happiness Formula. Here it is: Look Good + Perform Well + Get Approval = Happiness. As a result of dependence on “outside” measures of accomplishment and success, our children are showing more stress, anxiety and depression than ever before. In a refeshingly candid fashion, Jonathan shares from personal experience the harm the American Happiness Formula can create in young people and their families.

Hewitt_cover_withEndorsement.inddFortunately, there is hope, and Jonathan offers plenty of it. His training, extensive research and experience in psychology, martial arts and life education have led to some welcomed answers. In this in-depth, two-part interview, Jonathan outlines a formula for happiness that emphasizes increased focus, confidence, resilience and social intelligence.

Jonathan and his wife, Lana, teach their “growth from within” principles to young people at their Life Ki-do Academy in Austin, Texas. Their success over the years has been remarkable. The Hewitts have now shared with parents what they’ve learned and what they teach. It’s in their new book, Life Ki-do Parenting: Tools to Raise Happy, Confident Kids from the Inside Out. (22:07)

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COMING SOON: Raising Happy, Confident Kids, Part Two (Guest: Jonathan Hewitt)

Pull the Plug on Failure (Guest: Dr. James Sutton)

jimrecordingHere’s a program from the archives. Back in March of 1991, Dr. James Sutton (that’s him in a photo taken at the time) and educational resources company, Rock ‘N Learn, collaborated on an audio project, Shutting Down the Failure Machine. This all came about when Dr. Sutton met school psychologist Richard Caudle on a speaking trip to east Texas.

RNLLogoRichard and his brother, Brad Caudle, a talented audio engineer and gifted musician, founded Rock ’N Learn to create effective learning programs that are of high interest to young people. More than two decades later, Rock ‘N Learn is doing well, indeed, having earned over 150 awards!

This program was recorded at the Rock ‘N Learn studios in Houston, Texas (Conroe, for folks who know the area). It showcases Brad’s ear and feel for what sounds “right”.

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Pull the Plug on Failure was edited from a longer original program. In this program, Dr. Sutton describes the three stages of failure for the troubled child: Stress, Struggle and Submission. He offers many actual examples from his vast experience in the assessment of young people. He then goes on to provide ten ways we can encourage, assist and lift up the child or teen plagued by difficulty and failure. (24:11)

Note: To contact Dr. Sutton or to access  a number of free resources, go to the website below. (Some of the contact information mentioned in the program has changed.)

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COMING SOON: Raising Happy, Confident Kids, Part One (Guest: Jonathan Hewitt)

How to be a Great Parent (Guest: Dr. Nancy Buck)

PR photo in libraryThere is plenty of evidence to show that the brain processes negative factors quicker, longer and with more gusto than it processes the positive. We tend not to reflect on things that are going well, but just look at what we do when events and circumstances cause us concern.

What does this mean regarding how we communicate with our children and students? Answer: Just about EVERYTHING.

According to our guest on this program, developmental psychologist Dr. Nancy Buck, we want our kids to be SAFE. Our children, however, want to have FUN. These distinctly different priorities can clash into conflict. (It happens often, doesn’t it?) Nancy will show us how our typical responses in these situations can take a toll. In the process of unintended difficulty, relationships suffer.

Great Parent coverIn this fast-paced and stimulating program, Nancy provides the research and rationale for better understanding a child’s wants and needs, as well as methods for redirecting youngsters in ways that are more successful and more pleasant. It takes a bit of practice, but it’s worth it.

Dr. Nancy Buck is the founder of Peaceful Parenting, Inc. She blogs regularly for Psychology Today, and she’s an in-demand speaker and presenter on the topic of effective parenting. Nancy is the author of the acclaimed book, Peaceful Parenting, as well as a just-released work, How to be a Great Parent: Understanding Your Child’s Wants and Needs. (29:17)

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COMING SOON: Pull the Plug on Failure (Guest: Dr. James Sutton)

Video Games and the Internet: Protecting Our Children from Cyber Addiction (Guest: Kevin Roberts)

Note: This is a repost of an excellent interview with Kevin that aired April 22, 2012

What a timely interview! Exactly what are the risks when our children spend too much time playing video games or chatting on the Internet? Can texting become a problem?

Our guest on this program, Kevin Roberts, has answers to these questions, answers he learned the hardest way possible. Kevin is a recovering cyber addict; he can speak to the costs of video gaming and Internet addiciton, including employment problems, distancing of relationships, and even health and fitness concerns.

Kevin shares warning signs parents (and teachers) should look for if they suspect a youngster’s video gaming is getting out of control. He will also outline steps that can be taken to initiate immediate improvement. (26:25)

Kevin is the author of Cyber Junkie: Escape the Gaming and Internet Trap, and he regularly trains therapists, physicians, nurses, educators and parents on the perils of the Internet and video gaming. His informative website is:

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COMING SOON: How to be a Great Parent (Guest: Dr. Nancy Buck)

Child-Centered Divorce: Getting It Right, Part Two (Guest: Rosalind Sedacca)

RSedaccaPhotoCouples don’t marry so they can divorce. But, as we all know, divorce is a reality of society and of life. Regardless of the circumstances, divorce brings changes.

How does divorce affect the children involved? Are there signs that signal they are having difficulty? How do we explain and prepare them for a divorce, and how does a parent communicate with their former spouse regarding the activities and welfare of their children?

These are critical and challenging questions; children and teens depend on us to answere them well. Our guest on this program, Rosalind Sedacca, the Voice of Child-Centered Divorce, is an experienced expert on this topic. We are fortunate to feature her in this extended two-part interview.

How Do I Tell the KidsPhotoNot only will Rosalind point out the challenges and pitfalls divorced parents need to address, she will share about a proven, story-based method for explaining divorce and it’s resulting changes to the children. Her approach makes sense, and young people clearly benefit from it.

Rosalind is not only the founder of the Child-Centered Divorce Network, she is a contributing expert, author and popular guest blogger on this critically important topic. She is the author of the internationally acclaimed ebook, How Do I Tell The Kids About the Divorce? A Create-a-Storybook Guide to Preparing Your Children–With Love. (23:52)

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COMING SOON: Video Games and the Internet: Protecting Our Children from Cyber Addiction (Guest: Kevin Roberts)

Child-Centered Divorce: Getting It Right, Part One (Guest: Rosalind Sedacca)

RSedaccaPhotoCouples don’t marry so they can divorce. But, as we all know, divorce is a reality of society and of life. Regardless of the circumstances, divorce brings changes.

How does divorce affect the children involved? Are there signs that signal they are having difficulty? How do we explain and prepare them for a divorce, and how does a parent communicate with their former spouse regarding the activities and welfare of their children?

These are critical and challenging questions; children and teens depend on us to answere them well. Our guest on this program, Rosalind Sedacca, the Voice of Child-Centered Divorce, is an experienced expert on this topic. We are fortunate to feature her in this extended two-part interview.

How Do I Tell the KidsPhotoNot only will Rosalind point out the challenges and pitfalls divorced parents need to address, she will share about a proven, story-based method for explaining divorce and it’s resulting changes to the children. Her approach makes sense, and young people clearly benefit from it.

Rosalind is not only the founder of the Child-Centered Divorce Network, she is a contributing expert, author and popular guest blogger on this critically important topic. She is the author of the internationally acclaimed ebook, How Do I Tell The Kids About the Divorce? A Create-a-Storybook Guide to Preparing Your Children–With Love. (23:22)

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COMING SOON: Child-Centered Divorce: Getting It Right, Part Two (Guest: Rosalind Sedacca)

Doing What Must Be Done (Guest: Chad Hymas)

ChadHymasphotoAt some point most everyone has faced adversity in one form or another. But what about the sort of adversity that forever affects the remainder of one’s life, the bone-jarring kind of event or circumstance that challenges even one’s will to carry on? Even then, can adversity push us to become MORE that we ever imagined?

It seems so.

An accident on his ranch left young Chad Hymas paralyzed from the waist down with very limited use of his upper body. In this moving and fast-paced program, he will share the challenges he faced as his plans for himself and his family were changed in a heartbeat. But Chad will also share how his experiences opened new opportunities for him to serve and encourage others.

ChadHymasbookChad is a sought-after inspirational speaker and author of the book, Doing What Must Be Done. He travels as much as 300,000 miles a year sharing his special brand of encouragement and hope to audiences of all types worldwide. He is a world-class wheelchair athlete. In 2003, Chad set a world record by wheeling a personal marathon of over 500 miles from Salt Lake City to Las Vegas. He’s also one of the youngest members ever to be inducted into the National Speakers Association’s Speaker Hall of Fame. (27:39)

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COMING SOON: Child-Centered Divorce: Getting it Right, Part One (Guest: Rosalind Sedacca)