Do loving parents sometimes keep their children so busy that the youngsters are deprived of the opportunity to exercise their imagination and spontaneous energies in play, the sort play that truly is its own end? This program features guest author Pam Lobley; it looks into this question and provides some valuable insights. The Changing Behavior Network presents, “Why We Created a 50s Summer.”
Just about every parent fears doing or not doing something that would put their child at a disadvantage. As as result, it’s common for parents to involve their children in groups, classes, programs and activities that enlighten and enrich their sons and daughters toward a competitive advantage. At very least, they want their children to keep pace with the others.
The Pace is the Problem
But sometimes the pace is the problem. Is it possible our children can be doing so much and be involved in so many good activities that the spontaneity of simply being kids wastes away unnoticed? Pam Lobley, our guest author on this program, thinks so. The issue of today’s children having little time for free play and just plain fun inspired her to write Why Can’t We Just Play? What I Did When I Realized My Kids Were Way Too Busy (Familius).
“Why Can’t We Just Play?”
In the book, Pam combines insight and humor to tell of plans for the summer when her boys were 10 and 8. In considering the overflowing menu of activities that could be crammed into those few weeks, one son blurted, “Why can’t we just play?” That question made so much sense it was decided the boys would do nothing … literally. It would be a time for them to play to their hearts’ content and enjoy the freedom of no binding schedules for that summer.
In fact, the whole family become involved in making it a summer from the 1950s!
In this interview, Pam discusses their ’50s summer, including the impact on friends and acquaintances as she informed them of their plans. She acknowledges how there was some risk involved in “going against the flow,” yet how, on balance, the memories their family created that summer have endured.
Pam Lobley is an experienced writer, having written comedy, plays, newspaper columns, blogs and books. The book being featured on this program, Why Can’t We Just Play? is her most recent one, a sweet and funny memoir of that summer she spent “doing nothing” with her kids. (27:41)
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BONUS: Here’s an excellent, free resource from Pam. It’s a reference guide to suggested fun and playful activities parents can do with their children. Many of these go back to a “simpler time,” and that’s good! Download the PDF immediately and for free HERE.